Dear Queen, You’re the Prize!

Dear Queens of the universe,

You are the true essence of beauty. You are divine goodness from our God above. Your purity and love is so distinct yet ravishing. There’s not a creature like you….

I said that to say….

You’re a gift from God and you’re a prize, to the man that you allow in your life. Don’t lower your standards just to be loved. Don’t lower your self esteem just to build up a man’s self esteem. Don’t demoralize yourself just, to prevent your loneliness. Don’t destroy your inner  beauty solely, for a glimpse of love. Don’t sell yourself short just, to have a man.

Be yourself and allow God to send the right man into your life. Enjoy your single life, go and be free…..travel the world, shop til you drop, and most importantly fall in love with yourself.
Don’t rush God’s plans in your life. Enjoy each season and live life to the fullest. You can’t get this time back, once it’s gone. The right man will walk into your life at the right time! When the right man enters your life you’ll feel secure and you’ll have peace.

(Just a reminder)

I LOVE you…..now LOVE yourself

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It can be extremely difficult dating however, I’ve covered some ground work for you. Please tell me what you think. Your feed back is appreciated. Also, always remember that, the person your date or marry shows a lot about you as a person.

He Still Hasn’t Married you? It’s been 15Years !

There’s no way in the world I Could lay on my back and throw my legs across the shoulders; of a man who hasn’t married me after I’ve given him 15 years of my life. I can’t imagine cooking, cleaning, and loving a man for 15 years and not being his wife. Inside I would be distraught and confused. For starters I believe that people date individuals who they consider marrying. I also believe that courting and dating should only last two to three years. If a man doesn’t want to marry me after three (or maybe five years) then I’ll move on. I’ll never be a man’s option nor his seconds best. Marry me or move on. My time is too precious for me to waste it on an indecisive man who doesn’t know my value.

Ladies, please understand that a man will only do what you allow. He’s going to drag his feet on the things he don’t find important. He’s not going to make a big fuss about marriage if you don’t (especially if it is after five years or greater.) Put some fire under your man’s butt and tell him you’re ready for marriage or else (say it nicely though!) I guarantee you that he’ll do whatever it takes to prevent you from leaving him. He’ll do everything in his power to make you happy. Trust me
Stop settling. You deserve a ring, a true commitment, love with no boundaries, benefits, and more benefits! You deserve the best of what life has to offer. Xoxo

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No Sweetheart, I Don’t Want Your man

Girl please,

I don’t want your man. But if I wanted him than I’ll have him. He’s not my type, his money isn’t long enough and neither is his tongue. Enjoy your little man because, he can’t date a woman of my caliber. He settle for you so that tells  me a lot about his goals and ambition. We do business together and that’s it. He’s a good listener and nothing more. So, stay in own lane and mind your business.

Why are you so insecure? I’m no threat to you and you have no relevance I’m my life. I have too much going on to be focusing on you and your man. Stop giving me the evil and acknowledge me woman to woman. Honestly, I can give you a few pointers on how to engage with him! Oh, by the way here’s a little secret he has five more friend girls just like you! 🙂

Girl,

Your man can’t get enough of me. I told him that I don’t date men who are dating other woman yet, he can’t stop pursuing me. In fact, your man has tried to talk to get with me for the past two years. He can’t take No for an answer! I can’t rid of him perhaps you can. 🙂

I’m single and awaiting the man who god has for me! 🙂

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Leave That Married Man/Woman Alone

Girl leave that married man alone. He is lying to you about his wife. He isn’t going to leave her. He’s only using you to add excitement to his life. He doesn’t care about you. In fact, there were plenty of woman before you. You see this is a game that he’s always played. You’re just another playmate. I know that he’s brought you some expensive gifts and I know your kids love him but, you need to end this tragic love story. Pull yourself together and get rid of him. This man clearly has issues and lacks morale. Moreover, if he’ll cheat on his wife he’ll cheat on you to. Lastly, you personally told me that you were married for seven years and your husband cheated on you  for six of those years. You told me how bad he hurt you now, look at you becoming the person who hurt you. Get some respect for yourself and leave this married man alone.

Sir, this married woman isn’t going to leave her husband and kids for you. Stop wasting your time and move on. Your a good man and you’ll make a wonderful husband to a beautiful woman who will cherish you like the king you are. Reevaluate this situation and let it go.

You don’t have to settle for anyone because, you’re a blessing to anyone who meets you. There is someone in world who is going to love you unconditionally and they are going to respect and give you their whole heart. Be patient and wait on the mate that God has for you.

One love

Safe Sex No Regrets

I wouldn’t sleep with anyone unprotected. I don’t care how good the sex is. I don’t care how amazing oral sex is. I don’t care how many orgasms you make me have. I don’t care if I’m in the heat of the moment. I couldn’t put my health at jeopardy for no man. Personally I would manslaughter a man if I contracted a deadly disease from him. So, to prevent me from facing serious prison time I rather use protection during sex! Honestly, safe sex is just as good as unprotected sex because, ultimate goal is to have an orgasm.

There’s too many sexually diseases in the world for me to sleep with a man  unprotected. Also, there are some spiteful people in the world who intentional spread diseases because, they are hurt.

I know a lot of my readers are Christians and don’t believe in sex before marriage however, during a vulnerable moment of intimacy anyone could fall for temptation. Therefore, you need to keep you some protection and learn how to control your body.

Don’t be a statistic protect yourself and prevent or stop the spread of sexual diseases.

One Love,

I Can’t Be A Side Chick….

I’m a grown woman with two children. I work a full-time job and attend school. I don’t have time to play games with a grown boy. Quite frankly your money isn’t substantial enough to suit my lifestyle. And by the looks of your jeans you aren’t packing enough for me. So, you better off sticking with the basic chick that you’re with. Do yourself a favor in stay in your own league. How dare you try to have your cake and eat it too? Your game is weak and pathetic as you. Bye lame!

You’re not charming, you’re not handsome, you’re not wealthy, and you’re not for me so, stay with the woman that can tolerate you. Besides you’re a distraction and a liability. I could have helped you and your career. Bye lame!

Ladies~ I don’t have what it take to be a side chick because, I’m a queen who deserves the finest. I settled once in my life and it was my biggest regret and setback. You can’t pay me a lucrative amount of money to settle again. I rather be alone with my bullet then, to settle for a man who is too blind to notice a diamond in the ruff. Besides I don’t like to share; I require my own time, attention, currency, love, and much more. Furthermore, it’s too many men in the world for me to settle for a half man. Again, I rather be alone with my bullet than to share a man with any woman. Honestly, my confidence would diminish if I was a side chick. I would feel so low and disrespected. I guess that’s why I’m single! Lastly, side chicks don’t get any benefits!!!!!

If you’re a side chick end it because, a man would only do what you allow!!

Remember: if he can’t give you all of his then don’t give him any of you!

Reverend Do Wrong and Sis. Delilah

******WARING This blog post is fictional and very graphic.**********

My name is Delilah I’m a sweet, seductive, and Charming young lady. I recently moved to Orlando from the Bay area after I got involved in a serious murder case and almost lost my life. After that horrible incident my grandparents forced me to relocate. My grandparents and I knew that I wouldn’t live past the age twenty three living in the Bay area. Besides I wanted a change so I agreed to relocate to Orlando with her aunt Tonya Laron.

When I first moved with my aunt Tonya Laron she was highly annoying because all she did was force me to go to church. And boy I hated every moment of that. I wasn’t used to attending church mainly because I stripped on the Saturday nights and I was too exhausted to attend church service on Sunday mornings. Every Sunday morning I could my hear my grandmother Ellis saying “Girl you’re living like a hobo and your mother wouldn’t be proud of you.” I would ignore grandma Ellis and continue to sleep. Besides my parents were deported back to Islands due to drug trafficking so, their opinions didn’t matter to me. However, my auntie Tonya Laron was different from everyone else she made sure I attend church every Sunday, Monday, and Wednesday.

Lord knows I hated going to church up until I heard the Young Adult Pastor preach. The sermon “New Year New Me.” The sermon was so befitting for that time of my life. I thought to myself I would enjoy hearing him preach on a regularly basis. Besides he was SINGLE and easy on the eyes and very well spoken. I honestly enjoyed church more since he preached on relatable topics. I was surprised to see so many of my peers attend church. For some reason I thought that most people my age wasn’t interested in church.

Months after attending church and becoming involved I started following Pastor Bernard on Facebook. I liked at least three or four of his latest post. Then he messages me. I was shocked. Pastor Bernard asked me “Did we personally know each other?” I answer that one question followed by a serious of other questions.

A month or two later Pastor Bernard and I became close. I could talk to him about anything. However, one night I embarrassingly butt dialed his phone after I was leaving a party at Downtown Disney. He sent me a text asking “Is everything okay.” I replied oh yes, I’m well I’m just leaving a party Pastor and I accidentally called you.” Pastor Bernard asked if I could dance, and of course I told him I could but, I didn’t let him know that I was an Ex stripper named lollipop. Pastor Bernard didn’t believe me that I couldn’t dance so, he wanted me to prove it to him. I simply told him that we’ll have to salsa one day in the near future. But to my surprise Pastor Bernard stated that he wanted me to come over tomorrow and dance for him.

I was baffled and I was hoping he didn’t want me to do any praise and worship dances lol. Anyhow, Pastor Bernard ceased my curiosity and basically stated that he didn’t wanted any Churchy dances and that he hoped I wasn’t the churchy type of chick. I paused and chuckle to myself. I wanted to tell him Pastor Bernard, I’ll turn that righteous penis of yours completely out!  Lol

I thought Pastor Bernard was playing so, I texted him “See you later, goodnight.” Besides I started to cream in my panties and I couldn’t help it. He replied “Goodnight Sweets.”

The next day came around and Pastor Bernard texted me. “Good morning Sweets, here’s my address, come by at 6:00 pm, and send a play list of songs that I wanted to dance to. I wiped the morning dew out of my eyes because, I just knew that I was dreaming. Then I waited for a moment and just told him that “I’ll be there and have Uncle Luke playing.”

I was nervous and I didn’t know what to expect but, I was too deep to turn back around. I got up and began my day. I did my laundry, my school work, and took a nap. By four pm I started to prepare myself for this evening.
I took a shower, did my make up, and slipped on a brand new pair of thongs and bra then I slipped on my coat. I wanted to be spontaneous and blow his mind.

I arrived at Pastor Bernard home and he answered the door with a towel only. I was shocked but turned on. He was standing there dripping wet with all of his muscles showing. And for a moment I had a slight organism. Pastor Bernard asked me “if I was planning on coming in?”  We both chuckle and I enter in his place. I asked him if he had any wine and he told me No. From then on I took over.

Me: I took off my coat
Pastor B: Dang your body is banging
Me: Shut up and play my music
Pastor: yes ma’am, whatever you want baby
Me: Sit down in the chair
Me: I wrapped my legs around the chair and I begin to kiss his neck, his chest, and his muscles. I started grinding slow on top of him until he was hard as a rock.
Me: I kissed his forehead and stood up.
Me: I threw my hands in the air and begin twerking my left cheek, then my right cheek, then both cheek. I started  going up and and up and in a circular motion. My tail was moving like a deep sea ocean. I started grinding real slow and I put my hands on my knees and I got low and started throwing my cookie back and forth like I was on a motorcycle real slow up and down and side to side. I took my hands off my knees and twerked my cookie back and forth until I fell into a split. While in a split I started bouncing both cheeks up and down. I took my bra off so he can see my breast and want to suck them. And boy that started driving him crazy. I blew him a kiss and winked my eyes at him. I got out of the split and gave him a lap dance. I was on top of him facing forward and I wrapped my legs around his legs and the chair legs . I placed one of his hands over my breast and the other over my waist and I started stroking him back in forth.

Pastor Bernard: It feel so good
Me: I’m soaking wet and I wanna give you more than a lap dance……

To be continued

My Ex Husband’s Wifey

Roughly six months ago one of my Ex got married. I was truly happy for him yet worried for his wife. I was happy that he found true love but, I was worried that he will beat her like he beat me. The only thing I could do is pray for the young lady (Kira) being that she was only 21  and he was thirty. Inside I knew she was young, naive, and drunk in love. I knew what it felt like to be on her shoes. The feeling is exciting yet risky. And we all know that no one wants to hear dirty laundry about our partner.

Months passes by and more months passed by and Kira and I still haven’t met. I was fine with that because, there was so much animosity between everyone. Anyhow, she and I informally met via postcard that she delivered through my daughter. I thought the gesture was rather tacky because, I personally would’ve preferred a face to face conversation or a phone call. Anyhow, the letter gave me mixed emotions the letter came off a little negativity and offensive. I knew that her negative energy was streamed from my Ex so, I completely kept my composure. However, I became a little defensive but, I remained sophisticated. Anyhow, in the letter Kira introduced herself and  stated that she wants to be my friend and have peace with me. I told her about myself and I left her with a different perspective about myself. Also, I told her about my abusive marriage. 😉 kira and I exchanged a few words and left it at that.

Then days later Kira began sending me inspirational text messages. The text messages were upsetting me so, I asked her to stop texting me. Then I blocked her number. Maybe a week or so later I unblocked her number. Then out of nowhere she texts me “Its an emergency, I need to talk to you.” This time around my heart was a bit softer so, I immediately asked her “if she was okay? And that I will call her later on that evening.”

Later on that evening I got a phone call from a mutual friend discussing the personal affairs of my Ex husband and his new wife. I was shocked by the details of what I heard. I cried to learn that Kira was going through the same thing I went through. I felt horrible because, I wouldn’t want any woman to encounter the level of abusive that I experienced. My heart literally fell into pieces.

Moreover, later on Kira reached out to me and asked me a few questions about my Ex. I told her the honest truth I did hold back any details because, I knew my Ex manipulated her about EVERYTHING. Long story short she became, mortified that she was entangled in a messy web of deceit. Kira story was exactly like my story! All Kira could say to me was is ” Thank You because, you saved my life.”  It felt good to know that my testimony was helpful to someone else.

Long story short they’re getting a divorce. They’re not getting a divorce about the information I shared with her but, are divorcing for other reasons that she and I discussed. Kira decided to move on with her life and Ex is currently trying to come back into my life.  (THAT’S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.)

My point is that your story can help shed light on someone else’s life. Don’t be secretive about what God has done in your life. Your story may save someone’s life. Someone’s breakthrough maybe in you. God saved you so, you can save someone else. I initially told Kira a little about the abuse solely because, of the things she I were discussing. I also didn’t want kira to think that it’s okay to be abused. Initially Kira was oblivious to what I told her and that’s totally understandable because, most woman don’t want to know that their man have flaws. But inside I knew that Kira kept my words in the back of her head. I knew at some point she would want to know more details. I also knew that I was going to tell her the details. I wasn’t going to deny Kira of any information.

Kira left in an ample of time. She walked away less broken and abused than I was. I can’t share the exact details of everything that she and I discussed but I’ll tell you this her life is Saved and that’s all that matters. And as far as my goes, he needs counseling before he engages in any other relationships. He need God to heal him because, hurt people hurt other people.

The War Between My Legs pt 2

I close my eyes and listen to the breeze of airs outside my window, while tossing, turning, and fighting the war between my legs. I’m trying to ease my mind and not give into the desire of my flesh. My body is longing for a touch but mind is telling me to wait until God sends my husband. The thing is I’m not sure when my husband is going to come in my life but, I’m just about ready to put an end to this war between my legs.

I’m trying to be completely celibate but, it seems like my body has a mind of its own. Lord knows if I had a victim (a man) than I would wear him out every single night. I guess that’s why God is allowing me to remain single. (I literally run every man away.) Anyhow, there is sexual  triggers everywhere from music, social media, and advertisement. So, what is it that I can do to even take my mind off of the war between my legs. Lord knows I’m tired of these cold showers and I’m tired of lusting over famous actors.

It honestly feels like I’m fighting a losing battle. I’ve prayed and asked God to remove the throbbing desires of the ongoing war between my legs yet it’s still there. I’ve read literature to help me however, reading isn’t stronger than the war between my legs. So, someone please enlighten me and tell me whats woman supposed to do!

Each day its a constant battle that I fight there are days when I loose and there is days when I win. Most Importantly  I pray and ask God to keep this war control. I do my best to stay busy and around productive individuals!!!!

Anyhow, I hope this inspires someone to continue to fight against the war between their legs. I pray that God keeps you until that special person comes along.

Side bar I know that I’m a Godly woman  but, I’m still human so be careful with your judgement and misconceptions.