I can tell you some gruesome stories from a once broken and voiceless child. However, I’ll spare you the details and just tell you how to prevent endangerment with child(ren)
1. Trust: Make sure your kids know that they can trust you. Your kids have to know that you have their best interest at heart.
2. Open communication: Make sure your child(ren) know that they can discuss anything with you. Have a very close bond with your children.
3. Listen: Always listen to what your child(ren) is saying. Know everything pertaining to them.
4. Be involved: Be a hands-on parent. Know the kids who your child(ren)are around. Show up at school events and other activities.
5. Ask Questions: Ask questions. Never be afraid to ask a question that will make you or child(ren) question. (For example, I ask my kids questions such as, ” Has anyone tired to touch your personal area? Did anyone say something inappropriate to you? Did someone ask you to do something that made you feel uncomfortable?”
Ask whatever you want to know….Ask it. That one question can save your child’s life.
6. Stay Busy: I believe that kids should stay productive. Have them involved in activities that will keep their minds on positive forces.
7. Be Alert: Dont be a passive parent be alert and don’t trust everyone with your child(ren). Don’t put anything past anyone……remember anyone is capable of doing anything.
8. Be mindful of other children: Never leave children unsupervised. You never know what other kids are exposed to so, watch them around your children. Leave all doors open…..Also please note that Kids will try to touch other kids. (Same sex or opposite sex)
9. Love & PRAYER: Love your child(ren) and be a great role model for them. Give them a pure love that they can’t find anywhere else. Celebrate your child(ren.) Be supportive of your child(ren.) And most importantly pray with your child(ren.) Let your kids know that it’s important for them to have a relationship with God. Also, Take your kids to church (However, watch the church people too! Remember you can’t put anything past anyone. People are people regardless of their titles. I’M KEEPING IT REAL!)
10. Believe your child(ren): When your child(ren) comes to you with information that is affecting them believe them and stand up for them. As a parent you are your child’s voice. So, listen to the things they tell you and be their advocate at all times.
I hope this helps someone…….