My post have been about life and my journey with my heavenly father but, I have not shared with you anything abkut my singleness. If you are a frequent reader you know I’m recently divorced and currently preparing myself for the man who God truly has for me. This has been a difficult task for me! I use to like men who are powerful and paid. Yes, read it correctly powerful and paid. Here is why I love a firm man who can lead, be firm. I’m no woman who can deal with a soft man. My personality will overthrow his manhood, I’m just saying! I love a man that’s paid here why it shows establishment, stablity, and ambitious. I have these three attributes therefore we would be compatible to an extent. There are more on my list than that of course, those are deciding factors! Anyhow, since I’m am a Christian woman I’ve been awaiting my husband to find me (and he has to be a seasoned Christian). This has been the hardest thing I’ve faced since breastfeeding!!! Anyhow, I’m saved yet the enemy has been sending his candidates as well. I call these men counterfeits, because they look authentic, appear to be genuine. However, they are fake. As stated the enemy did send his candidates, I’m going to share my experience to help you distugish between a authentic spouse to be or counterfeit. Anyhow, since I’ve been fully devoted my life to christ I’ve being getting approached by men who were somewhat of my past (familiar spirits). It started with a guy who approached me, he was in the military he was pretty nice yet he did not know Jesus, I did the Christian thing and told him about Jesus, however he had some deep rooted issues lol. Later, on down the line weeks later my pastor did alter call and called his name out. This happen three sundays in a row, I invited him to church but for some reason he was nervous. Long story short the emails stopped. I could not understand why, but months later I realized he was a counterfeit with one purpose! So, next the devil sent along a pilot, let’s say he was powerful, established, and very helpful he asked me out on a date than canceled I could not understand why. I thought to myself that no one ever cancels on me. So, I called him on his bluff to see if he was really into sistas such as myself, turns out the dude had a girlfriend who was an African American. God is not the author of confusion therefore he will not place you in mess. In union can we all say counterfeit! The enemy was for certain he will get me, he know I was going to fall for a powerful and paid man , so he sends an a millionaire!!!!! At this point I’ve became an expert. So, here is how this went, we meet at paneras we chatted over my writing his company and exchanged business cards (I don’t believe in giving out my number hence, counterfeits). He would email me it would be brief and this only occured twice. Than one night he emailed me 3am, I went off. I felt as if this is disrespectful at 3am the only thing that is open are legs. Long story short, I put him in his placed in Godly manner. (If I was not saved he would gotten cursed out). Of course he played big shot about his millionaire status. In union let’s all say counterfeit. Lastly, just recently a man who is very known within my city and perhaps even in the gospel music industry approched me. This is so wired because I use to have a crush on his years ago. So, he sent me a message on FB it was at 1:36. Y’all long story short I jumped down this man throat accused him of being married and all. It turns out that that this handsome, articulate, well dressed man is single. He is also a minister lord knows I tryed to fix it, I apologized and all however, That did not work! I’m not sure if he was a counterfeit yet Ill keep you all posted. I hoped this could bring forth humor and help within your singleness!
Saddity Living 